What I was trying to say (before my ADHD took over, was that for X-mas and birthdays and such, all I typically want is someone to mention a, "happy X" or at most a card or cookies or something that is genuine. If they feel the need. I don't hold anyone accountable for anything except the simple need to wish others well. If they don't do that, then they can kiss my shiny, red...ohhh best censor this, christmas isn't quite over and Santa is still checking his list.